He has broken down and admitted that he has a problem with sex, porn etc. but doesn't want to seek help. He says the right girl will fix him.
My sister is a forensic psychologist and has known him 15 plus years. She has seen his behaviors and blame shifting and more. She recently told me she would classify him as a narcissistic sociopath. Based both on his adult behaviors and his childhood experiences. She has explained to me that people with those issues lack empathy and the ability to truly love. All the info she sent me fits him to a tee.
I am so sorry you're having to deal with this. It's hard enough DB'ing with a relatively normal spouse that is just going through a phase or adjustment, but clearly you're dealing with a H that has some very serious mental issues.
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I know this bb is for saving marriages and I wish I could save mine but not at the cost of losing myself or harming my children.
That's completely understandable and I think most if not all of us here would totally support you if you decide to walk.
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I want to DB to save myself and also follow and learn from Michelle and others to prepare myself for my future spouse.
