YOU are right, you figured it out. Let. Him. Go.

And, Let. Her. Go.

Have as little contact as you can.

Don't expect "detachment" to happen quickly, then you won't be so disappointed when you aren't detached. It's a process and you have a long history with this man. The key is to keep working on you.

And when people want to tell you gossip, say thanks but no thanks. You know that people sometimes like to stir the pot, it makes their boring lives more fun.

My personal favorite for the bad times is Chocolate Moose Crunch ice cream.

Did you say you were from Appalachia? What state?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss