H's issues are for him to figure out. If I guilt him into staying ( or coerce him in any way) it won't be a good marriage. He hasn't been a great husband (or father) for a while. He kept blaming it on work stress but I see now that he had other issues as well
Your insightful words were just what I needed to read right now, I'm on such edge that I can teeter either way.
I think I was going through a "guilting him" phase - back slide, hopefully I have gotten passed it letting him know I would accept his decision, with some dignity left.
Like your sitch my H has not been a good H or F for quite some time now, something has to be better than staying stagnent.
Good to hear your better today!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
