Thanks for sharing your experience Wendy. I never thought about it that way and now it's offering a new perspective. The way I saw it was that while I'm fighting to save my marriage, we should be keeping up appearances for the kid but you may be right about what expectations and let downs it creates. Definitely something to think about.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then