Piecing - Round 1

[Denver_2010]

Nothing really to update. W and I are getting along well for the most part. We do argue here and there, but we both seem to have figured out how to get out of those arguments relatively quickly so that they don't spiral downward like before.

Went to a live concert last night... up and coming band Alpha Rev. The drummer is my BIL's cousin. The drummer struck up a conversation with my W at one point. I was feel pretty sick still (getting over the flu) so probably wasn't really fun. I have to admit that I had some jealousy hit me when W was talking to this guy. I got a little irritated and W asked about it later. She asked if I thought that the guy was hitting on her. I told her that he probably was, but that he wasn't doing anything blatantly inappropriate. She was a little irritated with me and told me that I have to understand that music is her business and that she needs to try to make connections. That I have to trust HER... that it doesn't matter if I trust the person who she is talking to.

I know that she is right and that this was a ridiculous bout of insecurity that I was hit with last night. But I also attribute some of it to the PTSD that I believe that I acquired from everything that has happened.

In any case, I just told her that I would never say or do anything unless some guy just flat out disrespected me right in front of me. And that I didn't think that this guy had done that at all.

No argument. Just discussion. I think that we are still feeling our way when it comes to this issue.

No further contact from OM and no further discussion about the situation with W's entertainment company. I hope that we have heard the last of it.

Onward we go...