My thread disappeared. I couldn't see in the forum. No biggie as it is back.
She initiated 1 and I did the other. Part of the the problem was related to getting upset over her "friendship" with OM. My admitted overzealousness / impatience. Also part frustration as W has said how bad he hurt / used her, yet her saying they're not on bad terms. Whatever right? The good news is she did pursue me. She asked me to hang out. We made amends despite the arguments I / we were able to ultimately ha good talks with emotional content. That wasn't always there pre bomb drop. The so called "date" if you will, went well. In the sense we simply hung out, minor chat, and she fell asleep on the couch - woke up stile food off my plate - fell back asleep, more nice chit chat, then went upstairs. Multiple friend ly genuine smiles. I need to continue to focus on myself as well as rekindle the friendship. We each agree on that type of R as a minimum. So we will see...and yes. I'll jump to here to vent rather than with W or friends. Ending this night on a positive note Goodnight all
