I appreciate the input. I'm fully aware that I may be reading more into what's actually going on. So, AS, I understand the cold water.
I know that he's cake-eating and as of right now, I'm okay with it. I need to verify but H is going to come to my next IC on Monday. Depending on how the conversation goes, I may nix the sex. I need to see how it goes first. My C loves Michele's teachings/books/methods and so she is all for trying to help make the sitch better and save the M/R.
He hasn't mentioned OW in a while and so I don't know what's going on with her...although I know that they still text each other. The other night, I didn't have my glasses on but I could just barely make out her name on his phone while he was texting. He told me that he wasn't ignoring me, just texting everyone that he knows so that he could drain his battery. If he does it this weekend, I'll just tell him to stop texting, and turn Pandora and his navigation program. That'll drain the battery MUCH quicker. LOL
On Tuesday, I was leaving for a training session with a client that is 4 hours away. H worked until 11pm the night before and spend the night at his home away from home. He sent me a message talking about the furnace going out in the middle of the night and his "freezing" and needing to bundle up more. To my surprise he actually made it home to see me before I left on my trip. Granted he may have just wanted to sleep in our heated home and waterbed but some part of me knows that he could've waited until after I had left. I even received a text asking if I was still alive since I didn't send a message about getting there okay.
Small steps...right?
Me39 H35 M8 T14 Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me. End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter 6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file 1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home 3/13 Changes mind
