You are pressuring her and coming off as controlling. Unfortunately you have to go through with the D process but it doesn't mean the two of you are done as long as you make the changes to be a better person. Real changes for you. Become the person only a fool would have left. Start now. No more excuses.
I agree 100%. Sometimes my mouth moves before my brain thinks.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013