I got the same statement last night from W about never coming back home and no desire to work on M. I still do not believe anything she is telling me because she is not logical. But regardless she is starting to make financial comments that has me worried. The kids are with me 90% of the time, I am paying tuition for one of the kids, all of the household bills, insurance, and the W's car payment. Now she made the comment last night that she may want help to move out of where she is currently living to her own place so she would have more room for her and when the kids stay with her on her weekends. I am not trying to be a jerk but I feel that she may be asking for to much. Legally I know if we do get a D I will have to pay for some kind of alimony. But I feel that she is the one who wanted to move out and have freedom, why I should I have to pay for almost everything. This is why I think I need to consult some legal advise before I get in trouble here.