If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

I don't really know, I guess my goal is now to move on and let her and the other man try really being together. I'm looking at moving out soon to an apartment before I get a home. She has shown no interest in repairing our marriage and only shows interest for the other man. She is in denial about it hurting our children and she has been rubbing the affair in my face. It just really hurts that she picked him over me. Not much more for me to do, unless anyone has any more ideas. I wish I had just gotten a trial separation agreement instead of listening to the lawyer on waiting until we had a settlement agreement. I wonder if they had to live together earlier, maybe they would be past the honeymoon phase now. November is six months past D-Day.

My marriage was the most important thing in my life. Now I have to make my kids my main purpose in life and start a new beginning. I'm proud of how they have held up and hope they can be strong, though I will be strong for them.