I recently read something on someone else's thread, but I can't find it now so I will comment on it here. It was about actually getting the chance to reconcile but being afraid to go through the heartbreak again. If you look at as a new relationship, you have the same chance of it happening with your spouse or someone else you get involved with.

I don't think you would even get the chance if you fear it happening again. Part of my own transformation is trying to live without fear. Especially fear of the unknown.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
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Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on