Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

You're right AS none of us can stop the D process. I have to say that you have a very positive attitude. I also agree with you about the stages of D. I have no clue where my W is in that stage. My C who works with a lot of couples thinks she is not finished he has said that he has worked with couples much worse than my sitch who have managed to put things together and go on to have happy M's.

I know it may go against the grain here but I have decided to give her a letter telling her how I feel about her and pretty much telling her its her choice how this plays out. I feel Ihave nothing to lose at this point even if we come out on the side of her ending the M afterall I can't stop her anyway. I don't expect her to say anything at this time since she doesn't want to speak to me. Thx for posting