Well my C has suggested that we have "family time" once a week and then do the holidays the same throughout the S. This is very beneficial for my children but are you saying that it is not a good thing for either? Maybe the W would think twice about things if she realized what this is really all about if we are apart during the holidays...sometimes I think she is all for the family get togethers is that she thinks it will lessen the pain on the kids and make her look more acceptable....
I just don't know what to do about this also I would like to add to AS is that you might just be on a rollercoaster right now...there have been times when I was thinking well I don't need W and things would be much better without her...only to find the next week that I am missing her...just saying...
