TJP, I think your h is trying to push your buttons with these text messages. He has asked the same questions about the bank account in three different ways. He has now asked about divorce papers twice. You know what I would do? Sit on that text message and not respond back to him any time soon. If he sends another one asking the same questions again, I would say "H, I've already addressed the account and the serving of divorce papers in my text of 11/ /12. Please refer back to that text message."
I would love to jerk his chain. He's just being a PIA and he's hoping is that if he bugs you enough, you'll tell him everything he wants to know and also push you into filing. You've already addressed these issues w/him and you do not need to do so again.
BTW, I think you have gone beyond the 100 postings...you may want to begin a new thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.