T2 is saying that unfortunately now we have to find out how to do that on our own - OR - leave our spouses and find someone else who wants to fullfill these needs for you.
Close...
No one will ever be responsible for fulfilling those needs in me again...they can certainly add to them, enhance them, challenge them, etc.
But at the end of the day, whether with my W or if I leave and find someone else, only I am responsible for fulfilling MY needs, feelings, self-esteem, self-love and so forth. There is a difference between final responsibility and having someone add or enhance them. Make sense?
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
