AnotherStander - That is a very interesting way to look at my sitch. A LBS to a WAS, I will have to read up on what that really means and how it may pertains to me.

Weak and wishy-washy, yes that's what H has become, maybe always was but it was masked by his screaming rants and now he's out of hot air.

What I think of right away it that "I" am ready to stray away from my own sitch consequences be dambed. I am not seeing a future or change that I would be happy with in staying in this fight.

But I will read not assume. thanks for the post, it's helpful!

The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!