Sounds like some standard mlc modus operandi... -blame spouse -see self as victim -forget ANYthing done or said by spouse -see self as victim -be passive aggressive -see self as victim ...ad nauseum... The wondering if you are going to serve him is maybe a bunch of projecting onto you so HE is not the bad person. Stay strong! T^2
T2 would you answer the email or just ignore it ???
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!