Thanks Wanda and T^2.

I'm not sure what would be a 180. I thought about the library but then too thought about how uncomfortable I would be there and thought "The heck with this. Why am I letting this crazy person chase me out of my own house?"

So I'm in the bedroom lol. (Who's the crazy one? Thinking it might be me.)

Being assertive would be a 180 for me. But I have to be sure I'm ready for the possible consequences.

I think today I'm just looking for a hidey hole because its all just too much.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.