The crack in my separated life...

[Sweetbriar]

Kinda silly to be writing this, but I thought I would since it just was another person to validate how awful OW is. Its a small town I live in and Im a part time teacher at the school. Today, something came up and a teacher said she had heard and knew the OW very well for years. Said that OW was her hairdresser (OW still holds this profession) and that she spent years getting her hair done by her and listening to her stories of many relationships! Said that she is all about herself and that she could come across kind to some, but that she had a terrible relationship with her kids all the years that this lady knew OW. I knew OW had been divorced, but apparently she has always been into different men and bars. Now, she could have changed by now, but honestly, I doubt it. I mean, look what she is doing...dating a married man with children and doesnt care a bit.

This leads me to believe that she is helping along the talks of "everything will be fine" and "the kids will get over it and be fine" etc...

I just got a bit of satisfaction today knowing how this OW is. I think I already knew, but she really has never had morals it seems.

I hope that one day he wakes up and sees what kind of lady he is with. Before he moved out, I told him about her reputation and all he could say was that it wasnt true, she is so nice and that I dont know her. Well, I may not know her, but 1/2 my town does and they all say the same thing....he is BLIND!

Just wanted to tell someone my satisfaction of knowing more about how this OW carries on....if only my H would see it....

BTW..the teacher that told me hardly knows me..so she isnt just saying these things to make me feel better...she really was serious when she said that OW is all about OW....cant see how my H would like someone like that....because that it totally opposite of me...I was always about everyone else BUT ME!!

Thanks for the advice about talking to IC for the girls. I did have a nice convo with one yesterday when Youngest went...she agrees that H is acting like the child and my kids the parents sometimes. I dont think he will ever get the "poor dad" from my girls, but they did just recently tell me they are scared to say anything to make him mad for fear he will cut off their cell phones...so sad:(

I also agree that he is full of shame and guilt and he hates that he isnt the victim and that I have so many supporters in my life. I do think he wanted me to be in a puddle on the ground and because Im not, he is angry. He is meaner now than before!