I wouldn't say anything right away. Let it percolate a while - maybe see what else develops.

Sounds like your H has opened a new can of "How to Make my Spouse Even Crazier" smirk

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.