I sent the second email this morning, stating politely that I would be contacting my lawyer to obtain access to the toddler, and it would be good if we discussed before, and if she didn't want to, that was fine as well.

Here's the answer :
Hi B,
Yes, I have been giving our relationship some further thought as well. Let's talk tomorrow, okay?

Oh crap !
I wasn't expecting this. What do I do now?

Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012