Ok. I don't have enough money to go out for the day. So now I'm camped out in my bedroom. This is as far away as I can get and still be in the same house.
I could use some guidance. I don't feel I can hear all his "I would be so much happier with X Y or Z" and then go make him some lunch etc. Continue with life as normal. As if he hasn't just told me I rank somewhere waaay down there.
But I can't leave. H could, he has parents and other children to go to. (Interesting side note, his S from 1st marriage is bombarding H with email to move up there.) But my unemployment comes nowhere CLOSE to paying the bills. So financially I'm stuck.
Before when I've tried to avoid him he got angry with me, hinted that if I was going to "be that way it defeated the point of staying together for the kids". Clever isn't it? The whole thing is set up so I have to take all his garbage AND continue to play wife.
He just came home and yelled at me for not completing HIS job application. (I tried but couldn't get his username/password right.) And "what are you doing up here?" he asked.
How do I answer that? Do I say "getting as far away from you as possible?" I simply said I was working on my coupons and stuff.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
