Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

Also, I forgot to mention that W asked for things out of our safe deposit box. Told her I would get the stuff out for her and she would have it soon. She told me that she was out of town for a couple days so no rush. It seems apparent to me that she is continuing to move this forward and getting all of her things. I have no doubts that this is being perpetuated by OM telling her to tie up loose ends. Ultimately, not my problem. Moving forward, working on being happy!