Your perfect mate is based on how the personmakes you feel about yourself,
Nobody "makes" you feel anything about yourself, unless they have some kind of double secret mind-control device or something. It's not your mate's responsibility, it's yours. Unfortunately, this fact was left out of the "life manual and guide book".T^2
I am discovering this is TRUE -- if our MLCer's would realize this they be blaming us -- and we wouldn't be blaming them - excellent point T2 !!
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!