yes the stuff they come up with is so ridiculous that is funny in a way.
I am struggling though with even wanting to "stand". Like I've said in previous posts, our M wasn't terrific even before the bomb drop. And actually has changed little since then. I guess its considered "cake eating" because there have been no ramifications on H since the EA and the bomb drop.
Today I just want him to go. Or for me to go. (Of course this is financially impossible.) He currently is reasoning that even though I make him so unhappy and am so second rate that it is possible that another woman might also end up making him unhappy so maybe he just shouldn't bother leaving.
I don't want a R based on this premise. I don't want a H who justifies his PAs. Hell, I'd really rather not have an H who HAS As!
I think I may have reached my threshold.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
