Said "Are you sure you weren't dumped? The only thing worse than your husband cheating on u with (Insert OW Name), was gettin her sloppy seconds."
I know you know these sort of vengeful things don't help, please stay on the high road...leave vengeance to the Spanish Inquistion...
Quote:
H just texted that OW gave him companionship and company. Said he was lonely.
What the heck do I say to that?
"I'm sorry you felt that way. Why did you feel lonely?"
Then sit back and listen, validate only...no arguing, nothing of your opinion, just listen, no matter what comes out of mouth/texting fingers...you may be guiding him towards digging into one of his demons, and learning something of him atm. Plus maybe stealing back one of the things that OW might have provided, uncritical listening/validation.
Just my 2.5 pence.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
