Yes, be honest with H here, with W I was and she knew that she blew that in our R in a moment of clarity back in February. I did tell her though, that because I wanted to trust, that the trust has the possibility of being rebuilt. I think its important for her to know that repairing things IS possible, and that the task isn't insurmountable.
There were incidences since then where even though I didn't trust her explanation, I told her, rather pointedly, that I was CHOOSING to believe her at the moment. Her reaction was interesting, she seemed to get the difference. Anyway, just some small food for thought.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm