mal - thanks for stopping by, and i am very happy that you and your friend can get some use of the link i posted. sage (that wise woman) was the one that got me started on the positives, and you know, it really does help. i find myself looking for things during the day so that i can post them!!!
betsey - i am so happy to hear that you are not quitting yet, i knew you were that kind of girl!!!
pam - oooo, i am so happy you contacted me...i am more excited about seeing fellow db'rs than seeing my family! LOL
water - thanks so much for stopping by - your sitch is looking up too!!!
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POSITIVES
1) daughter had crawled into bed with hubby yesterday morning and fell back to sleep - when i was finished doing my morning duties, i went to snuggle with her, my husband actually let his feet touch mine, he realized they were cold and he let me warm them up on his body...wow
2) watched another movie last night...who woulda thunk???
3) haven't been feeling up to par the last few days and hubby has been very accomodating