Hi Grateful,

Great advice from LITB and Sandi. You have some really wonderful support here.

It seems to me, that for many of the stories here about couples that reconciled, that it can take a great deal of time. So I remain cognizant of that fact while I work on myself..

I have found a great deal of peace and have truly seen a shift away from the anxiety I always carried with me before by meditating/praying, reading, working on forgiveness/compassion and talking to the good people here about my own growth. I have found that, much as it hurts like nothing else... this has truly been an opportunity for me to grow into the person that was always there inside me, just covered up in fear.


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Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13