The crack in my separated life...

[needgrace]

Hi SB,

I think that there is a correlation between guilt/shame and his behavior. The more guilt and shame, the more overt anger, spew and acting like they are the victim. It is his way to try to distance himself from the shame he feels.. he can not face it.

i agree with bug on talking with the kids IC... so glad to hear that they are going to talk to someone.

You are staying so strong, SB... Hope that you are doing good things to take care of yourself.

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