i would like to add: not to speak to them in a way that requires them to "parent" him. THEY are the children here. THEY are the ones who need consoling, nurturing, and thoughtfulness.
i know you know this. he's the problem.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing