Today I got a date with the W, her birthday is coming up soon. With my new beginner mindset. I am treating her as a friend. I got hope without expectations but i plan on allowing myself to have fun without watching her every movements.
1. Dress up really nice, like GQ style. I got new clothes, went out on shopping spree and spent more money on clothes than i did in the last 10 years of my marriage. Hey I am single now 2. Hair salon to change my hair style, always wanted more flair. Always had a borrowing haircut at the barber. I need some advice. Never went to a Salon before (180) 3. Driving 3 hours to watch a concert (she wanted to see) 4. Taking her to a nice place to eat $$$, as a married couple we would avoid. 5. Got her a pillow and blanket for the car ride back so she can sleep. 6. Maintain eye contact throughout the event, give really nice smiles, and listen to every word.
Nothing about this speaks about being married. I just hope we have fun. If she tries any R talk, I ain't having it.
For me, she is now a single women, who i would like to get to know more. If nothing happens...oh well its just like dating..
