Thanks for the tips, ls13.

I do believe I've gotten to the point where I know I don't NEED him, but I still WANT him in my life very much.

I think I am "stuck" in the sad phase. I'm also "waiting" to see what happens next w OW (PA??). I know that I need to detach either way until he decides his path.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.