So Melissa, what did you learn from your conversation with your H?

Make a list on concrete things with no emotion attached.

I'll start,

1. He will watch the kids at OW house.

2.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss