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why can't HE see that he cares for me? that he calls me with these little things? why can't it sink into his THICK skull???

WHY WHY WHY


This seems to be THE question for all of us, kitti.

I wonder if THEY were so hurt during all of this, plus the fact that THEY can't understand WHY they did what they did, that THEY are scared to death to recommit. After all, what if it happens again? Then will they have to go through ALL of this stuff again? Maybe they think it is easier to sit on the sidelines than to get in the game?

WHY WHY WHY does it take a MAN so long to muster up enough courage to live the life he can live?

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.