We both agreed for me to be a stay at home mom - while he concentrated oh his career and now just when our kids are old enough to start being left alone AND just when he becoming a full partner in his business (meaning more $) he is changing all the rules. I feel like the payoff that I have been working for so many years is being taken away from me.
Hi, Broken! I read over your posts and found this quote that really hit home. It's like you took the words right from my sitch only we reached our last child's graduation D18, and the other 3 fresh out of college.
Talk about looking forward to getting back to us again, now I guess I can get back to me, or better yet find the me I am today, with H!
I'm sorry to hear your going through this, it doesn't feel good being left behind as I call it. Being in the home we built together with our kids and he just checked out for.....?
You sound like your on the right track and getting some really good advice here. Try your best to take all the advice...it's kept me sain and also has shown me my mistakes.
FYI, I don't encourage or discourage my H about being a F. My kids are old enough to speak out and it did nothing to change the sitch. He missed D18 graduation, he's stuck in a fantasy that she's ok about it!
He will have to face his own consequences eventually! IMHO, you can't push him about the kids either.
Keep reading! Stay strong!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
