wife wants her space, doesnt know who she is

[mastersolo]

Well I wish I could get of the moderation mode, today when I came home from an interview my W was cleaning our house, as I was waiting for her to leave my S5 was telling her he didn't want her to go so she asked if he wanted to watch a movie. Of course he was exstatic, after about 30 min I left to go sell some old stuff that was sitting around by the time I got back the movie was over, a few minutes later she announced she was leaving so she grabbed her bag then my youngest S1 and oldest S5 both started to crawl at her feet begging her not to go so I asked her if she would prefer if I just stayed else where tonight rather than her so the kids could be happy(not to say they aren't with me). She said that that is ok so I asked her if she could be back from her grandparents not to late so I didn't have to drive to my parents late just to have to drive all the way back in the morning to meet her to get the kids and take them to school. And she said "well you don't have to stay there you can just stay in the bonusroom"

Is that a sign of her letting up a bit?
Should I have just gone to my parents anyways?
Still so new to this DBing so not sure what I'm doing...
Once again I wish I wernt on moderation mode so I could get feed back right away since she isn't home yet from Gparents.

Thanks for the advise!!!