Hi CV. Curious question: Do you read much? Who are some of your favorite authors? Seems an odd question, but let me know and I'll go on.
It's worrisome to me because it seems your perspective is heavily influenced by how you feel at the moment. When you are recharged, you see things differently. When you are worn down, you see the same things another way. I don't know that you've seen that yet and know what to do about it. That's what I see that worries me.
That's totally aside from what you husband does or doesn't do because that's a lesson you'll have to learn regardless of what you and your H come to. But it's obvious to me that you both care deeply about each other. It's obvious to me that perspective, for you both, is a key part of the confusion.
Does that make sense?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
