AS, I'm glad you brought up the "family time" thing.
My WAS wants to have "family day" every Sunday together.
On the one hand it feels weird; on the other it feels natural. For now I'm choosing to "allow" this, but if OW comes into picture I'll have to really rethink this.
We are doing Thanksgiving and Christmas day together "as a family", but as I said to you before you are MUCH further in the DBing process than I am...so maybe I'll be there for Easter (?)!
That is certainly something to be thankful for. For us, we have separate plans for the kids for the holidays.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013