He's Just Not That Into You

[hopefulinga]

I think making room and pulling back will be good for you and will help you no matter what happens in the future. Just like me, you've gotten frustrated with your H's responses after all of the work that you've put in.

I get how confusing the physical contact can be. My DB coach said to continue to ML because it shows a connection on his part. It has been a little hard on me because it always raises my expectations.

Based on some of his comments that you related, your H sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. That gives you plenty of room to work with.