hello fellow DBers. You did not run me off at all. I took some time off and read DR cover to cover. I've been applying the LRT and doing a 180. I have been very supportive of her and taking my son out for Bfast, lunch , dinner every single day I'm home. She's noticed. Her demeanor has softened. She actually called me one eve and we chatted for over 2 hours! WOW! I was elated, but did not allowed myself to get too excited. I'm still working on me. She realizes that if we get a D, that she will actually have to SHARE our son every other holiday. I was sympathetic but resolute that we would be coparenting this young man! You all have given me much insight and support. A swift kick in the a$$ when needed to, all much appreciated. There's hope for us yet, but much work still needs to be done.
Me: 49 Her: 33 S20 mos I have S21 and D22 from previous M Separated on 9/05/2012 No D papers filed