Quote: NOT! You have done a great job! You validated, you didn't push. Just because his alien response didn't match a non alien expectation, don't think you didn't do good, cause YA DID!
Kitti take Water's words to heart! You handled it wonderfully! Don't measure your DBing by his knee-jerk response. That reaction is based on how he is dealing with his issues about the reunion / past ... not about your input. Now let him mull it over some more and that is where the impact of your DBing will take place and the next time he brings up the reunion with you, it will most likely be with a more positive demeanor.
From Kitti:
Quote: i just realized that today is 8 months post bomb...
does it ever get any better???
Having a hard time looking beyond the trees Kitti? Let me take you up in a hot air balloon so you can get a better view ... Is it better now than it was a month ago? ... and was that better than three months ago? ... and so on? Look out over the trees from this balloon kitti ... where you were 8 months ago is over there ... towards the horizon from where you are now.
As long as you continue to strive at making today better than yesterday ... it will get better. OK? I'll now ease you back down into those trees ... keep posting those positives ... they're your compass to let you know you're heading in the right direction. Focus on trusting and getting comfortable that they are reading true.
