Ed I answered this in your post but I'll answer here too Member Registered: 1Well Ed I can't force my W to do things with me it's her choice not to be with me. I can only control what I do. It makes no sense to sit around and wait for her to either make a choice to do something whether that be D me or choose to work it out. I still love her Ed but I'm slowly realizing its her choice to live in the past so that's why I have some GAL activities and I need to pick up some more. If you read what Mr Bond posted today his advice is spot on.
You are right I shouldnt mind read._____________________
If all you are is a paycheck and nothing more... Then you have to let her go, it would be unhealthy to suggest anything different.