Good work on attempting to GAL a little more... remember that at least SOME of you GAL NEEDS to be solo... as in without S...
The GALing helps so much with Detaching... in fact, it seems to be, at least in my case, the ONLY thing that really moves me forward... it helps to have a life outside of this situation we're all in... At the very least it gets our mind off of the garbage, and at best, it reminds us that life will go on either way.
Be careful not to fool yourself here though... You say you "Don't care" about your W not showing up, or showing up late and leaving early, but then a couple posts later you mention it again... A big part of this whole process is realizing the things you need to work on... then fixing them.
As you know, the thing you (and I) need to do most is to detach... So GAL as best as you can... There are a TON of groups you can join to help with this, as you're finding out...
And keep making progress on yourself. Stop worrying about what W might or might not be doing, as you can't control that.
