Well Ed I can't force my W to do things with me it's her choice not to be with me. I can only control what I do. It makes no sense to sit around and wait for her to either make a choice to do something whether that be D me or choose to work it out. I still love her Ed but I'm slowly realizing its her choice to live in the past so that's why I have some GAL activities and I need to pick up some more. If you read what Mr Bond posted today his advice is spot on.

Sorry you are having car trouble. When it rains it pours. I'm sure you get on your feet again. Glad to hear you aren't obsessing over your W like you were. Keep looking for things to do to occupy your time and mind.

M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out