Arsene, I'm sorry about your feeling like this...I can completely relate to it. Feelings come in cycles, some longer than others.
I was thinking about what tpc1977 said, and it's true. Us, women, are romantic (most of the time) so we are attracted to a man who fulfills our romantic ideals. In your sitch, this might translate into being the best you can be, patient, thoughtful, self-assured, creative (fun) and kind. You know your W better--what attracted her to you in the first place?
