Originally Posted By: leopoldstotch
Yes there is something to GAL Ed. It takes your mind off of your W and it makes you feel good about yourself.


Thanks for checking in Leopldstotch.

I made that comment tongue in cheek, btw.

I know how fervently that concept is hammered into all the DB'rs on this site.

I did read through your entire thread earlier today and empathize with the lack of reciprocation from your W. Tough decision that you are already leaning over the fence on for you. I wish you well. You two lead such separate social lives and although that is good for your GAL, is it not, More Of The Same, by continuing to be so independently active without each others involvement?

I now need to repair a starter on my van and/or replace the valve cover gaskets on my 14 year old car just to have transportation. Whenever i start saving a few bucks to try to catch up on my mortgages, i run into expensive repairs this year.

I still do think about my W alot, but it is not overwhelmingly taking over my every thought or control me so much that i don't do anything else.

I didn't find any current programs offered at the library last night to sign up for, but i received a winter park district schedule in the mail today that i will go through later.

Once again, thank you very much for checking in with me.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012