Fixer,I am sorry that this is happening to you. But, I do have one question, why are you moving out? If she's the one that isn't happy, maybe she should be the one move out. If you move out, it could look like abandonment of your family and home.Before moving out, speak to a lawyer to make sure that this will not harm you financially or look bad in the eyes of the law.
Fixer I am amazed !! Have you been DBing since 2005 and your still trying - God Bless you !!
I agree with Snodderly - speak to a lawyer first -
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!