"I say nothing, there's no good response for any of this..."
Actually there is. IMHO you should have said... "First of all, I didn't think there was a risk of losing you. It's your choice to leave and I have no control over your decisions. Second, the past issues were brought up because we lacked communication. Just because you say something doesn't mean I interpret it in the same way that you mean. That's why I suggested going to counseling but you refused. Going to counseling is the right way of handling this so we can communicate effectively. However if you don't want to go, we repeat the same pattern. But that, again, is your choice." or something like that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
