Even if I say, you will definitely ruin my chance of getting my M back to him. He'd say this is what he's gotta do to help H!
Oh well, it sounds like he's going to do it regardless of what you tell him. So don't worry about it. Even if it causes a setback it won't be insurmountable. But I think MrBond is right, you should try to distance yourself from this guy. He's not helping and he's deliberately going against your wishes, sounds like a "friend" you don't need right now.
